I want to lose 65 pounds by the summer. And I was wondering how does it feel to lose all the weight after do you still feel fat, hoe do you feel?

Some days i find myself being too lazy to work out or i simply just dont have enough time to work out.
The thing that bothers me is that i feel like fat and bad about myself for skipping a workout or two.Like it bugs me !
does this happen to you when you skip a work out?
And how can i stop skipping workouts? How can i force myself to do a workout?

I’m honestly absolutely depressed beyond repair. And no one even understands. I really hate my school with a passion, and I hate everyone in it. I don’t have friends anymore, except for one friend, whose only constantly lowering my self-esteem just by being around me. She’s gorgeous, flirty, funny, gets all the guys, while I’ve never even had a boyfriend. I have to try SO hard to look halfway decent, where as she can just wake up with bed-head, throw on a pair of shorts and a top, and guys will be falling at her feet within a matter of minutes. I moved to this place 4 years ago, and I still hate it just as much as I did the first day. Nothing’s changed. My parents pretty much hate me because I’m doing horrible in school, while my brother’s somee big 8-year old over-achiever. All they do is yell at me, and make me feel even worse about myself than I already do. I’m not good at anything, and I don’t do any sports. But I wish I did, because then maybe I’d have something to actually be proud of in life. But I can’t do any sports, because my parents wouldn’t be able to drive me to or from practice, because my brother has soccer practice 5 days a week. (Every school day). I literally feel like I have nothing to look forward to in life. I feel so upset and depressed constantly, and don’t even know why I’m in this world. Its not like I’m gonna amount to anything anyway. All of you reading this probably think I’m just some stupid spoiled teenage girl who’s just ranting while there are starving children in africa. But please believe me when I tell you all, I’m D E P R E S S E D. I need help. I need some hope that some day, this will all be over. I need something. I can’t get clinical help, because if I told my parents I was feeling suicidal, they’d just call me crazy and feel emberessed that I’m their daughter. I just have to believe that life gets better than this, or I don’t know how long I’ll last. So if any of you have any words to offer, please do. I’m desperate.

Today is one of those days that when I’m getting ready to leave, I obsess over my appearance so much that I just stay home. All I need to do is go to the grocery store. This is ridiculous. When I look in the mirror I can’t believe how ugly I am. My hair, complexion, weight, outfit… I’m so afraid that people are going to look at me with disgust. I feel like people see me and talk about how ugly or fat I am. My husband usually talks me out of this, but when he is busy at work there is nothing he can do about it. He loves me, I know he does. He tells me I am beautiful all the time, and so do other people, but I think they just say it to be nice or make me feel better.

I just don’t understand!!!! I go to the gym, eat healthyish, have good hygiene, make myself presentable. I just can’t ever do enough to make myself look the way I wish I did. I’m 5′6", 150lbs, have a small to average stature, but when I look at myself I feel obese and that other people think I am as well. I know this isn’t normal. What am I supposed to do?! How can I snap out of this?

Ok so my: not really friend is named Lilly
My crush that likes me to is named Jake

So Lilly used go be my friend a few years ago since we live next door to each other, now I don’t really like her. She is always bugging me to play and being stupied and that what I tell my real friends because it’s true. Then once I found out that my crush liked me I got so happy and told her, I also gave her a pic of him and told her his name. Now she’s always like are you and Jake dating? Have you kissed? I really regret telling her. Once I was at the pool with him and my party and she was there she came to ask me why we had been walking together earlier (we were) and I was like SHHH! He’s right over there and then she was like oh where I wanna meet him! And talk to him! I probably turned pale I had a horrible thought of her going to talk to him and she will ask him somthing like so your friends with rose while putting her eyebrows up and down ( my names rose) and he will be like umm why does she know rose. I feel like she will tell him and embarrass me! God I reAlly hate that girl! Then me and him are going to Marilyn (the school) next year and she’s already going there then I’m afraid she will talk to him everyday about it there and I just don’t know what to do! What should I te her? Should I say hey Lilly when you meet jake can you not mention about how we like each other and don’t drop any hints please? I really cant have that happen.

Anything will help ;( I’m really really deppresed about it so yea

iPad 2 Megapixels, what are they and what do megapixels do? Sorry if I sound lame, but my friend asked my how many megapixels does your iPad 2 have? I didn’t know what he was talking about so I said lots! He looked at me a bit weird and changed the subject. But now I feel a bit stupied, what are iPad 2 Megapixels? In fact, what are megapixels and how many does my new iPad 2 have?

I suppose this is something I should know owning an iPad 2, but it the iPad does everything I want it to and I never really looked at the spec, I’m not really a technical kind of person, I just wanted something that I could access the internet not that wasn’t as small as a phone and not as big as a laptop.

So everybody, enlighten me. iPad 2 Megapixels, what are megapixels and how many megapixels do I have. I know mega is a Million so do I have one million iPad 2 Megapixels?
Sorry if I got the wrong category for this question about my iPad and its megapixels. I couldn’t find a category for tablets, and it’s got a camera. I just don’t really know anything about technology. I’m still learning.

ive always been so self conscious about my body. feeling like im hairy because i see all the perfect, "hairless" celebrities with perfect skin and bodies and everything else. I always have anxiety about always dealing with like waxing the top of my feet or hands, eyebrows and upper lip..oh and my stomach. all day im thinking about how friken hairy i am (even though nobody else notices) and how abnormal and ugly i am, and how i dont want to deal every night with plucking the hairs from my feet and eyebrows and looking at my stomach that is honestly, probably normal, and just thinking about how theres nothing i can do to fix it since im young. (sorry that was kinda repetitive..) anyway, basically, i now dread taking a shower every night because i dont want to think about my body and how unsatisfied i am with it. i get all anxious and feel ugly and that theres nothing i can ever do about it. i now dont want to take showers, undress, or even acknowledge my body (even though i do all those anyway, and have anxiety about myself ALL DAY EVERY DAY). Do i have a phobia of myself, errr a phobia of my body?
i often feel better about myself when im around friends and family, since i know that my phobia is unreasonable and im actually normal. i just dont want to admit it, because i dont feel normal

I have had an eating disorder since I was 11, I am 18 now.
Ive been diagnosed with Purging type anorexia (which is like anorexia AND bulimia), and Binge eating disorder.
Yes, I have been formally diagnosed about 7 months ago with ALL three eating disorders.
Fuck, lucky me -_-
I transition between PT anorexia, anfd binge eating about twice a year. losing 40 pounds, gain 30, lose 20 gain 30…
I am current out of treatment, i pulled myself out of it because my psychiatrist was a douche.
now I am going every day bingeing. I am not overweight. I am average right now. I feel horrible and I can`t deall with this not eating all day then bingeing at 7pm every single night.
Telling myself ì won`t do it again tomorrow`
then doing it again inevitably.
I dont want to leave the house, I feel to obese.
I feel so fat and so out of control.
I can’t stop cutting myself every night.
I want to do. I want to overdose and fucking die
How can I stop this cycle of bingeing? Please, I am begging someone to help me.

So I’m 14, 5"4 and 125 pounds
Ive got Aspergers…
I feel extremely FAT, and ugly all the time… But I feel even fatter in my school blazer…it make be feel extreembly OBESE!!!!!
I hate eating… I try to eat 500 calories a day but my parents force me to eat a meal of 400 which is really hard! I take forever to eat a meal, about 2 hours and my mum is getting sick of me leaving alot of food… I don’t eat any lunch at school but lie to my mom saying I had loads and make humours out of it saying I had a bacon sandwich and chips and pizza coz my sister loves them… She eats Alot!!! And because my parents are quite fat i don’t wanna eat meals like they do!!! I make sure I have smaller meals and try and leave as much food as possible, I hate the way my body is, my friends are worried, but I try dodging the subject, I try to stay off school coz I get bullied which also helps coz If ur sick you don’t eat much… Any Ideas how to lose weight and hide leaving dinner from my parents?!????
Need Help ASAP!!!!
No Nasty Comments Please !! <3

(a little background) I’ve been religiously counting calories, over exercising or overeating, self hating, throwing up since elementary school. I’m so sick of it. I’m not even fat, I’m thin I know I ‘m thin, but I don’t feel think what I see and what I feel are opposites. I feel so obese I can’t even wear tight clothing I gross myself out. I’m so done I can’t deal I feel like my life is a constant cycle of counting calories, starving, binging self-hatred, puke repeat. I don’t wanna be controlled by what I eat anymore the problem is I don’t know how to stop no matter how hard I try I can’t go a day without thinking about calories, and barley anyone knows about this what should I do HElP?

I am 5 foot 5 and I am 110 pounds. I have lost 15 pounds in the past 3 months. I feel so obese and fat but people say they can see my face bones and my hair is falling out.
I am so scared. I feel like I am too far gone to get help.I eat between 0-500 calories. I have had this issue since 6th grade but it has gotten a lot worse. I am now 18 years old. I am a full time med student I have a full time job I work internships at a hospital and I volunteer at the humane society. I want to get help but I am so scared that I will still see myself as fat. Honestly, If recovery will still make me see myself as fat, then I want to die. I am tired of this issue. I believe anorexia is a lifestyle that I chose to follow but I am stuck now and I do not know what to do. I can not recover on my own and my psychologist I have been talking to but I do not feel like it is helping. I feel like I am going farther into my addiction. What do I do? What is recovery like? What is the difference between inpatient and recovery?

There’s this little girl that comes to the park I take my kiddos too… Her babysitter brings her there and then just lets her run around by herself, doesn’t interact with her at all, just plays on her phone and looks bored. The girl looks to be about 3 years old. She is very heavy for her age, I’m sure she would even be considered obese. I just wonder about her parents…what they feed her, if it is genetics or what…

people tell me im not fat but i feel obese!!!!! im 13 (ill be 14 in 4 days!! omg!) 5ft 7in weigh around 135 lbs and need to lose weight fast! i want to feel thin for once. i know this probably cnt happen but is it possible to lose maybe 10 lbs in a wk? idk im kinda naive…but its better than being jaded so pleaseeeeee help!
i need real answers please not tht chain kind of thing thts like "click on the 2nd and 5th link" and please dont stop me! i need to lose weight

Well I’m 136 pounds, 5′4, and I feel obese…I just do not like my body at all!!..btw my measurements are bust: 38in waist:28in and hips:38in….I feel really fat so I decided to run on the treadmill…anyways if I do 2 laps on an incline of 10 at 3mp then 2 laps at an incline of 6 at 4mph….how much weight will I lose in a week…also I’m going to limit my calorie intake at 1500….would it matter WHAT I ate if I keep it under 1500? Or do I have to eat healthy AND keep it under 1500?…so basically I’m running a mile per day…when will I start to lose weight?

I can’t seem to say anything useful to her. I’ve tried switching therapist and stuff, but I still can’t talk to her. And I’m still cutting and I still feel obese, so it’s obviously not helping. How do I become more open?

I just had a talk on the phone with my father while being depressed about being a pre op FtM. He asked me whats wrong and I told him he wouldn’t understand but after insisting I tell him I told him how I have gender dysphoria and that I am a male trapped in a female body and that I’m thinking about transitioning. He told me I need to think about other things and that it’s a complete waste of money. I told him it’s been on my mind for 19 years and that it’s not a waste of money and then I asked him doesn’t he love his penis and he replied with "I’m supposed to." Then he tells me "it’s your life I can’t do anything about that I had a feeling you would say that. I know a 50 other people including my brother who are "like that" " Then he told me to consult the bible or someone more experienced with this. I asked him do you know the exact chapter in the Bible that talks about being transgendered and he said "Nope" proudly. He told me to "start with Geneiss". I asked him if he will still love me and he said yeah but he said basically that he will always address me by my birth name. My father is one of those people who never has anything positive to say and when he says it’s a waste of money I know he doesn’t mean the actual results of bottom surgery which are pretty grim right now. He means just going through the surgery in general whether it is perfect or not. When I told him I liked women he compared it to being a whore and thought immediately that "he would never have grand kids to carry on his name". I have no interest in kids reguardless or not.

I’m not too sure what to make of this. It’s easy for HIM to say it’s a waste of money because he’s already a guy and he can obtain erections, pee standing up, penetrate, masturbate etc. and feel whole as himself while I struggle to even get sexually aroused in my skin.

I feel like I could give him every single evidence of proof of my condition but he would just cut me off and say "it’s your life" as if that is supposed to help me. He doesn’t live with me because he got arrested for domestic violence with my mom. I think he really does somewhat care for me but he’s just think he is right all the time and it’s annoying.

Should I continue to tell him more about my condition or just let it be? What do you make of what he has said?

Btw this question was originally going to be about my depression coping sexually with my gender dysphoria but I will post that question later since my father has me feeling even more like crap right now so be on the look out for that question.

Today i tripped and this girl laughed and on skype shes said "Fail!" and me and her are good freinds so i said "your dads condom and mom’s abortion was a fail and she didnt respond, her freind that was with her said to me why diid you say that? then when i asked why she said her mom is dead :/ i feel so bad, i had no idea and i was stupid for saying it… What would you guys do in this situation? :/ And also ive been freinds with her for 5-7 weeks not and the subject never came up…And my brother saw i was really sad so i told him what happend and he said think of it like this: when i ask people they say apologize, she’ll need some time though, her mom died 5 years ago, in the case of how i said it it was a joke it waas basically saying "your mom" but using a fake situation that never happend…

i hate myself so much. i’m not happy in life. i want to be the girl in school who all the guys like. i’m over obsessive about calories and eating and whenever i mess up on my diet i binge eat. i’m gaing weight instead of losing. i want to have the perfect body but i just cant do it.i get barely any attention from guys. I have the ugliest legs in the world and i cry over them everyday. They are veiny, fat, pale, and i have wrinkly knees and cankles. I’m not overweight but i dont have a good body. I used to think my face was pretty but i’ve had people tell me im ugly and i dont think so anymore. i hate how my thighs touch hate the bulge in my stomach. i cry everyday. i hate myself so much and hate my life. all i do is look at people and think of how much they enjoy themselves and how pretty they are. ugh im done!!!

ok so my son is 8 years old is 4′2 and just tipped the scales at 200 pounds. so we had him take a sports physical so he could play football (he loves fooball btw) and she said he was considered morbidly obese and he failed the physical and which means he cant play football this season. i was so heart broken and started crying when i heard that. this was a cheap physical at Walgreen’s so they didn’t give me any advise or plan or anything. iv really just coddled him all his life. he was, is, and always will be my baby. it seemed what ever food he wanted i gave it to him. he is a coach potato who watches tv and plays video games all day, and he eats very unhealthy (which is my fault for feeding him greay and fatty foods). i have a rule for him that if wants wants a snack he has eat something healthy first and he has to ask me for permission. because he doesnt want to follow my rules, he likes to sneak food one day i saw him walking to his room and i just motherly kissed him on the cheek and hugged him and i felt these weird lumps around his sides so i asked him to pull up his shirt and he was hiding twinkees and snickers bars under his fat rolls so that i couldnt see them and i asked him if he was hungry and he said no i just wanted to eat them. also i catch him playing with his belly fat. i asked him "what are you doing with your belly" and he starts jiggling his belly and replies ", look mommy my belly is like jello see how it jiggles,"and started smiling and laughing it makes me think he does not know what being obese is and the risks he has. i also have a feeling he does not know what being obese is. like he knows the difference between fat and skinny but he doesnt know being obese is bad. like the past week he said he wanted his birthday party at this small water park in our town. i have a 16 year old daughter named Rachel who is a normal weight. she wore a bikini to the party and my son said " Rachel has a skinny tummy and i have a fat belly" and he started to laugh. and while his friends and him were playing i saw him jiggling and rubbing his belly and he and his friends laughed. i dont think its genetics because my husband is 6′0 and 180 pounds i am 5′5 and weigh 130 pounds. his belly hangs over his pants, has a lot of rolls. i feel like such a horrible parent for letting him get to this point.
what im asking is
what are some good exercises i can do with him?
what are good diets i can have for him?

I feel fat, especially this picture….Dont I look fat in this picture??

My height is 166cm, how much do you think I weigh? Im 19 years old..
I am dieting and excercising.. but its ruining my life, its all I think about!!!!! and I am always scared that id gain weight!!!!!!!

Hey guys. I am really not happy with what I did. While I was browsing the internet. I found a website that features inappropriate stuff(sex, naked guys and girls etc.) and it caught my attention. I thought I better not check it out, eventually I clicked on it and entered, you know what these things can do to people. I knew I shouldn’t, but I entered, i was a very stupied idea, I kept browsing there for about 30mins or 45mins. Now after I existed I felt soo guilty, I didn’t want to see all this dirty stuff, I didn’t like it or what I did, I feel soo bad. I know alot of guys just love to watch this stuff all the time and that it is just like their habit. But I am not. Is what I did something wrong? I feel and know it is, and I am really disappointed and feel like I lost faith in myself. And I want to tell my parents, how can? will they accept it?, I am 17 year old guy by the way. Did I do something wrong? Have you ever do that before and had this feeling? Did you like it? well tell me what happened, how did you feel and what did you do, thanks for your time.

im 16 and u probably already know that looks are a major priority in a teen girl’s life. I feel its as if im in world where everyone looks better than me…especially my sister !! She has flawless beauty from head to toe and every time i hang out with her , i feel more and more discouraged about my appearance. In high school, it’s no better. I’ve done so much to change myself ;makeup, hair color, u name it! But at the end of the day, it doesn’t seem to suffice. What can I do to increase my self esteem ?