I hate where I live! Everyone is thin and I’m always the fat one. I’m not that fat just chubby but I still feel like i’m Obese. Everytime I see someone who’s skinnier to be it makes me sad and I don’t want to eat. What can I do?
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It helps if you realize that our bodies are just homes for our spirits….really! Our appearance is secondary to our emotional, mental and spiritual health… even heavier women with a healthy outlook manage to look beautiful and have a "glow" about them that thin women do not have…
Make sure you feel good about what’s going inside your mind and heart, and when you look in the mirror, it won’t matter so much…you’ll stop comparing yourself to others.
dont let it bother you, and defiently dont stop eating, stay healthy and eat healthy foods, the people around you shouldnt matter, make your self happy and thats it, i know where your coming from, you see them wearing cute clothes and when you go shopping you wish you could wear that cute shit but know that it wont fit or wont look as good…. but just learn to be happy with yourself, besides your not fat your well fed!
Be happy with who you are or lose weight. You shouldn’t let people define you and have that kind of power over you. But at the same time, if you’re intimidated because you know it would be a good change for you, maybe you should listen to yourself.
Try and lose weight or change your mindset. You need to raise your self esteem. Getting in shape ( you don’t have to be model thin) will help you to feel better about yourself.
(i’m huggin’ you right now…)
The very best thing for you to do is to embrace the beauty that is "YOU" and F*%K everyone else!! Screw ‘em! I’m not real sure that I could handle being a tiny little girl who never eats…I love food…I’m an expensive date…I eat steak and do not require a doggie bag. I’m not ashamed, and you shouldn’t be either. These are the things that make us individuals. Your "skinny friends" probably don’t see you as "the fat one"—as you so lovingly refer to yourself…
If you really feel strongly about changing your figure, I strongly suggest talking to your family doctor about diets, exercises, etc… Otherwise…embrace your curves!! I know plenty of men who’d rather grab on to curves rather than bones!
don’t feel bad, i’m not exactly skinny myself i weigh 265 lbs. i’m not skinny. but i don’t worry what anybody else says or thinks. i simply don’t care. yes it does make it a little harder for me to breath at times. but i deal with it. so should you. if you really don’t like the way you look then change it.