i have a really obese friend and casually mentioned that i was going to start going to the gym. She asked if she could come with me. This was my plan! So, we went a few times every sunday and she was really enthsusiatic about it, but for the last couple of sundays we havent been going becuase eather one of us cant make it. I feel as though she lacks drive, as its so sad to see becuase if she lost weight, she would have more confidence, dress nicer, go out more ect. We’ve never really talked about her weight, and i dont know how to without offending her. The thing is, no matter how much she works out at the gym, shes still going to eat crap when shes at home, and i cant stop her. I feel as though its waste of time her going to the gym, if she piles the pounds back on with junk food. How do i talk about this issue with her seriously, without loosing her? To her, the gym is just something to do; she doesnt understand im trying to help her loose weight. It doesnt help that im slim! PlzHELP